Do You Need To Visit a Marriage Therapist
Most couples don’t get past two years before they are deeply sick of each other that they anticipate that divorce. With so many divorces, one can really smell something is truly wrong with the society. And actually it is not about the society, it is every person playing their role and responsibility by recognizing that they just entered into an affair with another imperfect human that they have to give room for.
It is perfectly normal for couples to have issues and arguments, and this even the most perfect ones have from time to time. Depending on how strongly bonded and understanding of couples, issues could range from seemingly small to very complex, sometimes the least issues can cause the most trouble or the opposite. Worth noting though is that, even if sometimes couple end up in fights, that does not always create any doubt for love in the relationship because at the end of the fight they will always get back together and move on well.
We honestly can’t go blaming the society when we fail to manage our own family and personal issues. It is a trait that all of us have and that can only be controlled by finding its balance. Being human allows us to have flaws and for that reason, you realize that sometimes we are so much concerned about ourselves than the next person. Loving others only make us feel and look better, looking at it that way, you realize that we are so much into ourselves even at the most subconscious times than we think. When that love for yourself is too much, however, when you can’t create that equilibrium between your love and your partners’ that’s when you become so arrogant, pride grows and you become jealous. My conclusion therefore and when I look at that question of whether couples need regular counselling would be yes, we constantly need that professional guidance even if it is a podcast or virtual just to remind us to maintain our track and maintain the equilibrium.
on that regard, anytime you want to visit a therapist, seek for one that offers the PET kind of therapy, it is highly effective and certified. This is the kind that will give progressive result and have long-lasting effect. It literally surpasses the (CBT) Cognitive Behavior Therapy by far and most preferably for this kind of case because there is actually proof that the latter is most effective for the women and does not have long-lasting effect. Study also has it that families do want therapy and place high value on the experience.